Making Marriage Awesome Tip #1: Always become more.
You are either becoming or you are diminishing.
To diminish will require nothing of you. To become nothing, all you must do is improve nothing. Stay exactly where you are. Who you are. What you are. Hold onto yourself, become bitter at what you are not, and disappear.
But if you want more, move. Do. Be. Intend. Get up and try. Take responsibility and change yourself. Hope, and you might become something. Look up to someone and surpass them. Find a new hero, and become even more. Improve. Always ask ‘how can I’ instead of ‘why am I not.’
You don’t accidentally become.